Many people get a chuckle out of the flower girls and ring bearers at weddings. I have been to many weddings where the ring bearer would start saying something silly or the flower girls would dump out all their petals right at the end of the aisle. They always look darling in their nice outfits and they are a sweet reminder of how Jesus loves us. But, if you've ever been the mother of a flower girl or ring bearer, you know how rewarding and difficult it is to have your children in a wedding.
My brother recently got married and our twin girls who are four were flower girls in the wedding. I was so honored that my children got to participate in their wedding but I had some struggles in keeping them obedient and well-behaved before and during the ceremony. It was a learning lesson for me and if we are ever asked to be in a wedding again, I have a better idea on how to parent my children without being stressed out. Here's my advice on keeping the flower girls and ring bearers happy, entertained, and obedient: